What would you do!
What would you do?
•Sara-Mei won’t eat anything green – she even refuses a whole meal if one green pea appears on her plate.
•Santiago is interested in everything at the table BUT eating.
•Dillion gets upset when one food on his plate touches another.
•Mariffa won’t eat anything but an orange or a banana; two days ago she’d only eat-peanut butter sandwiches.
“Choosy” eating is a child-size step toward growing up and showing independence. In fact, what seems like a challenge to you may be an early step toward making food choices. A child’s “No” doesn’t always mean no. What seems “choosy” may just be your child’s awkward first steps in learning to make decisions.
What appears to be “choosy” eating may instead be a smaller appetite. Preschool-age children grow and develop at a slower rate than toddlers do. If left alone, most children become hearty eaters again when their body’s growth pattern requires more food for energy.
The best advice for you: relax and be patient! Learn how to handle eating challenges and how to avoid conflict. That way, your child won’t learn to use food as a way to exert control.
Ten Effective Ways To Handle a “Choosy” Eater
√ Treat food jags casually since food jags don’t last long
anyway.
√ Consider what a child eats over several days not just at each
meal. Most kids eat more food variety than a parent thinks.
√ Trust your child’s appetite rather than force a child to eat
everything on the plate. Forcing a child to eat more encourages
overeating.
√ Set reasonable time limits for the start and end of a meal then
remove the plate quietly. What’s reasonable depends on each
child.
√ Stay positive and avoid criticizing or calling any child a “picky
eater.” Children believe what you say!
√ Serve food plain, and respect the “no foods touching” rule if
that’s important to your child. This will pass.
√ Avoid being a short-order cook by offering the same food for the
whole family. Plan at least one food everyone will eat.
√ Substitute a similar food - if a child doesn’t like a certain
food, maybe sweet potatoes, instead offer squash.
√ Provide just two or three choices not a huge array of food. Then
let your child decide.
√ Focus on your child’s positive eating behavior not on the
food.
Provided by -NIBBLES FOR HEALTH
14 Nutrition Newsletters for
Parents of Young Children, USDA, Food and Nutrition
Service
